Tuesday in the Third Week of Advent, December 16, 2025
Matthew 21, 28-32
Jesus said to the chief priests and the elders of the people: “What is your opinion? A man had two sons. He came to the first and said, ‘Son, go out and work in the vineyard today.’ The son said in reply, ‘I will not,’ but afterwards he changed his mind and went. The man came to the other son and gave the same order. He said in reply, ‘Yes, sir,’ but did not go. Which of the two did his father’s will?” They answered, “The first.” Jesus said to them, “Amen, I say to you, tax collectors and prostitutes are entering the Kingdom of God before you. When John came to you in the way of righteousness, you did not believe him; but tax collectors and prostitutes did. Yet even when you saw that, you did not later change your minds and believe him.”
(Sunday night I mistakingly posted a reflection I had written thinking that the next day was Tuesday. I realized my mistake Monday morning and wrote and posted one for the correct day’s Gospel Reading. Rather than post again the reflection I had originally posted I have written a completely new one, which I am posting Monday evening. I’m sorry for the confusion. The days go so fast!)
This parable is unsettling precisely because it refuses to flatter anyone who hears it. Jesus tells it not to sinners on the margins, but to chief priests and elders—to those who know the law, speak the right words, and inhabit positions of religious authority. And he begins disarmingly: “What is your opinion?” He draws them into judgment before revealing that they themselves stand under it.
The first son says what many of us secretly feel: “I will not.” His refusal is blunt, even rude. It lacks polish and piety. But it has one saving feature — it is honest. There is no performance here, no religious varnish. And because it is honest, it can be repented of. Something happens afterward. The son changes his mind. The Greek suggests a real interior reversal, not mere regret but a turning of intention. He goes. He does the will of his father.
The second son is very different. He says all the right things. “Yes, sir.” The words are respectful, even devout. From the outside, he looks like the obedient one. But nothing follows. His obedience exists only in speech. His “yes” is a substitute for action, and once spoken, it seems to satisfy him. There is no change, no movement, no vineyard dust on his hands.
Jesus’ question is simple: Which one did the father’s will? The answer is obvious—and the leaders answer correctly. But in answering, they condemn themselves. For they are the second son.
This is where the parable becomes sharp. Jesus does not accuse them of open rebellion, but of something more dangerous: religious inertia. They say “yes” to God in principle. They assent to righteousness in theory. They speak fluently about obedience. But when the call comes in a concrete form — when John the Baptist appears, calling for repentance—they do not move. They do not change their minds. They do not go.
And then comes the truly scandalous line: “Tax collectors and prostitutes are entering the Kingdom of God before you.” Not because their sins are smaller — they are not — but because they believed John. They recognized the truth when it confronted them. Their lives were visibly disordered, but their hearts were still capable of turning. They did not confuse words with obedience. When repentance was offered, they took it.
Jesus adds something even more damning: “Even when you saw that, you did not later change your minds and believe him.” In other words, the leaders were not merely ignorant; they were resistant to evidence of grace. They saw sinners repent. They saw lives change. And still they did not reconsider themselves. They did not allow grace in others to unsettle their self-understanding.
This parable warns us that the most dangerous spiritual state is not outright refusal, but unexamined religious commitment. That is, a spoken “yes” can become a shield against conversion. Familiarity with God can harden into immunity to him. It is possible to say “Lord, Lord” and never enter the vineyard.
At the same time, the parable is full of hope. The first son reminds us that a bad beginning does not doom the end. What matters is not what we once said, but whether we are willing to change when the truth confronts us. God’s will is not fulfilled by correct language, but by lived response.
The Kingdom of God is entered not by those who speak best about obedience, but by those who, sooner or later, get up and go. And sometimes it is those who begin furthest away who arrive first — because they know they must move.
The question Jesus leaves with us is the same one he asked the leaders, though now it is quieter and closer: Which son are you and I becoming — by what we say, or by what we do?