Wednesday in the 31st Week of Ordinary Time, November 6, 2024
Luke 14, 25-33
Great crowds were traveling with Jesus, and he turned and addressed them, “If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple. Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple. Which of you wishing to construct a tower does not first sit down and calculate the cost to see if there is enough for its completion? Otherwise, after laying the foundation and finding himself unable to finish the work the onlookers should laugh at him and say, ‘This one began to build but did not have the resources to finish.’ Or what king marching into battle would not first sit down and decide whether with ten thousand troops he can successfully oppose another king advancing upon him with twenty thousand troops? But if not, while he is still far away, he will send a delegation to ask for peace terms. In the same way, everyone of you who does not renounce all his possessions cannot be my disciple.”
In today’s Gospel Reading, we find a common situation in the life of our Lord: “Great crowds were traveling with Jesus.” They were following him physically. But he wants them to know that appearing with him is not the same as believing in him, and it does not suffice for salvation. They must believe and persevere in their belief.
“If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple.” The Greek word translated as “hating” can certainly mean “to hate” and “to detest”. It can also mean “to value one thing less than another”. We should understand this verse in this last way. The one who would follow Christ must prefer him to his father, mother, and even to his own life. In practical terms, we put service to the Lord above anything our parents, family, friends, or bosses want us to do. We do not compromise if someone wants us to lie or to cheat, or to join them in some immoral activity. This service may require sacrifices such as a young man or young woman leaving home to enter religious life over the objections of their parents.
“Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple.” “To carry one’s cross” meant to go to die an infamous death. Properly, this means that the one who would follow the Lord Jesus must practice the Faith no matter what it might cost, and to regard death for Christ as a great gift. This also extends to accepting whatever hardships we must endure for the sake of the Lord. Examples of this include ridicule for performing some volunteer work or attending Mass despite physical pain. It even includes offering up some ordinary suffering for someone else’s benefit, such as their conversion. In these ways we share in the Lord’s own sufferings.
“Which of you wishing to construct a tower does not first sit down and calculate the cost to see if there is enough for its completion?” The Lord is speaking here of the perseverance in faith necessary for salvation. We should consider that since we are weak human beings we need to pray every day for the grace to hold fast to the Lord Jesus. We are like people walking between two mountains on a rope bridge. We have taut ropes at our sides to guide us to guide us, but we must take great care in our crossing and to continue on rather than to give up and perhaps try to go back, or even, as
fear builds within us, to allow ourselves to fall of of it. “In the same way, everyone of you who does not renounce all his possessions cannot be my disciple.” That is, to hand over our will to the Lord — to conform our will to his.
The Lord Jesus tells us what it will take for us to follow him as his disciples. He wants each of us to give our whole selves to him so that he is indeed our Lord. As St. Paul says: “I count all things to be but loss for the excellent knowledge of Jesus Christ, my Lord: for whom I have suffered the loss of all things and count them but as dung, that I may gain Christ” (Philippians 3, 8).